Sunday, March 28, 2010

"i know you'll be the sun in somebody else's sky"

unrequited love. some say it is the worst kind.
shakespeare writes entire plays based on this theme....Othello...Midsummers....

and its like i am being strung along. all the while i am allowing this to happen. silly me.

still looking to change the world....perhaps i should start with me. a year off :2011-2012

"this twisted, toxic, thing...is finally finished".......if only......

Saturday, March 27, 2010

a year later. i am wiser.

January 22, 2009.

dear d,

i know you are one of those people who appreciate letters....well emails...hahaha. I know you are generally the go to person, i assume. sensitive. can understand what is going on to some extent. okay, here goes...i need someone to listen, but i am not very good with speaking...i am better with writing, formulating, correcting, editing. don't even know if i will send this. i think it would be shocking if i did, it's so not me.
i wish you could read me always...like i know you can mostly. it's like i have a hint of sadness or anger and you see it and react. i presume this leads to much of our conflict. you are too in tune, if there is such a thing.
you asked me today if i was okay....well here goes...
i am not okay. i think i live in a fairy tale. am i crazy? i plan things out. all the time. preemptive attacks that occur on a daily basis. it's like there is a fucking military in my head.
i want to get married. i want to be happy. to be happy. am i blinded by all around me. how do i not see, that i am not...it is not...what do i fear? the answer seems simple: i don't want to be alone. the ultimate fear: being alone, and in doing so, will i ultimately be better? mistakes. we all make them. sometimes an eraser will come along and all that is left is a noticable smudge, but in life there is not erasers (i read that once). no erasers. so what if i am wrong.
i am so angry and sad. i think that is why i look so angry and sad. how do i escape? rhetorical questions.
what if i continue on this path? will i reach ultimate happiness?
how do you know? they say you just know.
what if i dont?
my whole life i have been playing catch up. being forever ahead, by any means necessary. when do i get caught up? when does it stop?
i am so tired. so tired. so tired and confused.

love,
-k

Saturday, March 13, 2010

if you're wondering if i want you to...

still in love.

i usually get what i want.

im starting to think that this time it will not be the case.

Sometimes I give away so many pieces of myself that I am afraid I will not get enough pieces back to make myself whole again. In my times of need I find myself reaching out to people from my past. That comfortability and compassion from someone who I feel knows the true person I am is usually what I need the most. A fresh start.

vacay time.

Sunday, March 7, 2010

<.......>........<........>

another year older. another year wiser.
i am better.
i have no doubt that this years low-key birthday will be better than last year.
another year stronger. another year happier.
i am passionate.
i am blessed and humbled by those around me everyday.
another year living. another year aging.
i am braver.
i am excited for the days to come, and live each day for the day.